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Me and my husband have been married almost 7 months now. Prior to us getting married we had a very rocky relationship. It seemed to consist of a lot of on again off again drama. I can honestly say when we were "off," he was all I thought about and really would have a hard time coping with being without him. Everytime we did have a break up I always thought it was the end and I would basically cry to my friends (not literally) about how hurt I was and they would always tell me, "you guys will get back together", and we always did. We realized that even though we had our differences, we didn't like being apart, and we decided to get married. I'd say the first 2 months were pretty nice, although I don't quite remember us ever going through the "honeymooning stage," where everything was picture perfect and we couldn't keep our hands off of each other. We got along pretty well though, and we were happy. Well needless to say, around the 3rd month we were back to our old ways again. I can't even tell you how many times the word divorce has come up. Right now we are separated, and I'm hurting. He says he's done, and I don't want to believe him. To make matters even more complicated, I just found out I am pregnant. He's not happy about it. I really don't know what I am supposed to do. I want my marriage, and I love my husband, and I definitely plan on having our baby, but I just hate all of this off and on crap. I also don't want him to think I'm continuing this pregnancy to keep him in my life. I am prepared to be a single parent if that's what happens, but I surely don't want that. So I guess my question is, is it normal to go through these ups and downs in a marriage, or did we just make a foolish mistake going through with this in the first place. I know it seems immature, but this is how our relationship goes. I would like things to be more stable, especially now that we're bring a child into the world. Any suggestions.
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